Shaykh Naseeruddin Albanii | Language:
English | Format: PDF | Pages: 33 | Size: 1 MB
There are in Islam, certain etiquettes upon anyone
who marries and wishes to consummate his marriage
with his wife. Most Muslims today, even those who
exert themselves in Islamic worship, have either
neglected or become totally ignorant of these
Islamic etiquettes. Therefore, I decided to write
this beneficial treatise clearly explaining these
issues on the occasion of marriage of someone dear
to me. I hope that it will be an aid to him and to
other believing brothers in carrying out what the
Chief of the Messengers has ordained on the
authority of the Lord of the Worlds. I have followed
that by pointing out certain issues important to
every one who marries, and with which many wives in
particular have been tested.
Table of Contents
1. The
Author’s introduction
2. Kindness toward you wife when you wish to enter
into her
3. Placing your hand on your wife’s head and praying
for her
4. The praying of husband and wife together
5. What to say at the time of making love
6. How he should come to her
7. The prohibition of sodomy
8. Making wudhuu’ between two acts with one’s wife
9. Bathing is perferable
10. The bathing of husband and wife together
11. Making wudhuu’ after sex and before sleeping
12. The ruling of this wudhuu’
13. Making tayammum in a state of janaba instead of
wudhuu’
14. Bathing before sleeping is preferable
15. The prohibition of sex when she is menstruating
16. The penitence of one who has sex during menses
17. What is permissible when she is on her period
18. When it is allowed to resume sexual activity
after menses
19. The lawfulness of coitus interruptus
20. It is preferable not to practise coitus
interruptus
21. What the two spouses should intend with their
marriage
22. What he should do the morning after his wedding
night
23. The house must have a place for bathing
24. The prohibition of spreading bedroom secrets
25. The obligation of a wedding feast
26. The sunnah of a wedding feast
27. Wedding feasts can be given with other than meat
28. Participation of the wealthy in the feast with
their wealth
